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Berea Falls, Ohio. Copyright-Michael Shake

by Glen Ford

To give recognition, or to receive recognition, is generally thought of as a positive thing. Recognition is to acknowledge as by some reward or tribute. 1 It could be a pat on the back with a job well done, a trophy/plaque or some other token of acknowledgement conveying approval. That’s the first thing that comes to mind, at least for me.

There are other meanings though in other contexts. The formal act of acknowledgement of existence which can convey approval or sanction. Now sanction can mean authoritative permission, but the sense I am meaning here is a provision of law which enacts a penalty for disobedience to the law or reward for compliance.  Karma if you will.

I want to break this word down a little more, to work back to the root. To recognize is to know again, to perceive something as identical or similar to something previously known. Also in law it means to examine to discover the truth. Next step back is to cognize. This is to perceive; to become conscious of as an object of thought-it is an act of awareness. Let me take one more step back. A cog is a tooth or projection, usually one of a series, on a wheel/gear, for transmission of motion to or receiving motion from another wheel. This can be directly or indirectly. An example of directly is gear to gear like a can opener. Once I engage a can opener there is a gearwheel attached to handle I turn. It interfaces directly with a gearwheel on the cutting wheel which is the blade and a friction wheel to turn the can. After a little work, eureka, there be tuna fish or whatever the goal was. An example of indirectly is a bicycle. Here the cogs of the first gearwheel indirectly engage via a chain cogs on a second gearwheel. The first has pedals attached the second has the drive wheel attached. I push the pedals and off I go.

Whether the cogs engage directly or indirectly it requires work to make progress and it helps if I have some awareness of where I am going, what my intent is, what my desire is. Productive work requires intelligence.

1. The ability to learn or understand or to deal with new or trying situations, reason, also the skilled use of reason.

2. The ability to apply knowledge to manipulate one’s environment or to think abstractly as measured by objective criteria (as tests). This second definition supports the occult definition as the ability to do work.

Now, I would like to relate a recent experience, then attempt to tie it all up at the end.

In a store parking lot last week as I was putting my cart into the cart corral, I heard someone just pressing on the horn and on and on. It turned out to be a dispute over a parking spot. The first guy (Sam) had passed a spot up against the building and was backing up to take the spot. The second guy (Harry) was coming down the aisle towards the store. The aisle was lined up with the open spot and Harry was on the move to pull right in. Sam was backing up to get spot and Harry was on the move for the same spot, horn just blaring away. They both stopped in time to avoid a crash. Then Sam edged back and Harry crept forward, horn still blasting.

Eventually Sam got back enough to turn into the spot but Harry pulled straight in first and jumped out of his truck to go tell Sam off for nearly backing into his truck, what was Sam doing? In such a rush was Harry that he missed putting his truck into park and only made it to reverse. As he is headed over to yell at Sam, he was knocked off his feet by the door he had also left open. Fortunately there was a woman passenger in Harry’s truck who managed to get a foot or a hand over to the brake before he got run over by his own vehicle. Sam and Harry exchanged heated words for a minute, then parted.

Once it was clear they were not going to come to blows, I stood there shaking my head and laughing. Harry saw me and said “Yeah, did you see what he did?”, apparently looking for confirmation that he was correct and had behaved appropriately. Trying to help him, I responded “Yes, I saw him, and I saw you too, you big dummy!” His face went from angry to confused and back to angry. He flashed me a hand gesture and walked away. He did not get that the only real danger to his vehicle came from his parking lot road rage, by jumping out of his truck while it was still in gear. I hope he gets it eventually. I guess his brain slipped a cog, which brings us back to recognition.

This quote I remember as coming from the late Wayne Dyer though I cannot find a citation. “You can neither love nor hate something in another person that you do not first recognize in yourself.” This Quote is from Hermann Hesse “If you hate a person, you hate something in him that is part of yourself. What isn’t part of ourselves doesn’t disturb us.”2

The point is, my discomfort in what I witnessed stemmed from my recognition of that behavior in myself and how it made me feel afterward. I used to be that guy on a fairly regular basis. On this path of awakening, I am grateful I do not have to do that anymore. That’s not to say I do not do that anymore. I do still occasionally slip a cog in my brain, fail to pause and consider the options. That is the difference between proactive or reactive. Successful change requires vigilance.

Just recently I went off on my neighbor, four or so weeks new to the hood, over barking dogs and interrupted sleep. This was the first time I met them. By the time I got back in my house I was already regretting it. Within minutes I left them a note on their door apologizing and asking for a second meeting with them under better circumstances. Later that day they came over, we met appropriately and have since made nice. The dogs still bark during the day; they are brought inside mostly at night now. Had I gone and introduced myself when they first moved in, I would have had a foot in the door to speak with them civilly about the situation instead of imaging their machinations to disrupt my sleep until I snapped and embarrassed myself. On this occasion I caught it myself, if a little late, and made amends. I am grateful, however, to have people around me who will point things to me when I miss the mark.

When I spoke to Harry I truly was trying to help him see himself. The first step to solving a problem is to recognize that there is a problem.

Socrates said “The unexamined life is not worth living.”3

I am here to express that the examined life is no picnic, no walk in the park. It is a lot of work, but work is required to gain meaningful experience, to think, to gain awareness, to acquire knowledge and increase consciousness. That is what it means to be human. Otherwise what is the point, it is a dog eat dog world, life is a bitch and then you die? I need to see this with better eyes.

If come judgement day recognition as referenced at the beginning of this article is desired, it would behoove me keep pedaling the re-cognition bicycle.

Keep Pedaling,
Glen Ford

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The Power of Thinking

by Glen Ford

No, I do not mean the power of positive thinking. That concept too often gets sidetracked into “God is in heaven and all is right with the world” or “Everything is as it should be” or “La-La-La everything’s fine”. God may well be in heaven, He can be anywhere He wants, but all is not right with the world. There are problems in the world: poverty, hunger, wars, social injustice, and political corruption. Do you really believe all is as it should be? I do not. No amount of positive thinking alone will do a damn thing about it, wishing will not make it so. There is work to be done. Sticking our collective heads in the sand with the La-la-la everything’s fine attitude does not solve anything. It is a delusion and just ignores the problems which will eventually step up and bite us someplace that will be unpleasant.

If I am not a part of the solution I am a part of the problem. A positive attitude is essential but inadequate. First I (should) believe that what I do matters. Why? Because it does! Number 1 in the Pattern on the Trestleboard tells me

“I am a center of expression for the Primal Will-to-Good which eternally creates and sustains the Universe”. Then I must take action!

“All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good people do nothing.”

This quote is out there in several variations; it is not my pearl of wisdom. Who said it is a matter of dispute. It has been attributed to Edmund Burke and John Stuart Mill among others. It is an interesting trail if you care to research it some. Regardless of who said it first and in which version, I believe that the concept it conveys is true. Great or small, what I do or fail to do by my inaction contributes to the ongoing process of creation. It is a matter of critical mass. Positive, negative or indifferent, my small contribution can be the straw that breaks the camel’s back or the feather that tips the scale towards justice.

I may not be able to control what happens in the world, but I can exert a measure of control on my thoughts and actions. What I think about all day long, gets put into my subconscious mind and expands in my life. I must be careful what I tell subconscious. It does not care if I have the courage of my convictions; it is unable to discern if what I put in is true. Subconscious is always running in the background to bring what I tell it into manifestation. Garbage in garbage out, so right thinking becomes the key factor. This is important because the problems in my personal life and of the world are not in the sphere of my control; but what I think and express in words and action do have an effect, on my problems, on those around me, on my sphere of influence if you will, beyond what I am even aware of. How I exercise my self-conscious control over how I think and what I think is a learned behavior. It requires being conscious and aware to a sufficient degree to decide what I pay attention to and how to build meaning from my observations and experiences.

Those observations and experiences come to me through sensory input, sight, sound, smell, touch and taste. The thing is that the sensory input arrives in my brain as electrical impulses without any meaning. It is the job of my brain as a survival tactic to make some sort of sense out of those impulses, to assign meaning, and over time make up my story. It is also pretty good at filling in any information gaps, but not always with truth. This story is by nature subjective. It is complex. It involves the interaction of intellectual, emotional and instinctual elements. Being completely objective is difficult at best, if even possible. This computer program comes with automatic spell checking built in. It would be great if our brains came with an automatic program called reality check, alas it does not, so we have to work at it.

The animal brain has evolved for survival. It was selected by surviving long enough to procreate. That takes food, shelter, fear (flight or fight), and sex.

I am still alive so my story has gotten some things right at least on the animal level. This is just about the vehicle, the body, but that is not the whole story; I am more than that. I am not just a physical being capable of having spiritual experiences. I am a Spiritual Being having a physical experience. I am not my body, I AM that which animates it.

HUMANS! Human consciousness needs to develop and grow also or what is the point? Life is a bitch and then you die? Human self-reflective conscious awareness allows us to have some input into deciding our course through what lies ahead. This is a good thing, the more, the better. Think, plan, act, accept responsibility, make adjustments, be proactive versus purely reactive. We can learn by dialog or experience. All that is required is that we be willing to take a reasonable amount of risk. If I cannot risk being wrong, that is wrong. I cannot learn or grow. I cannot make adjustments or receive correction. There will be friction, there will be pain, but this is my measure of influence, it is my only real power and it starts with thinking. I must exercise it if I am to get out of here alive. If I give up that awareness because it seems too hard, I deserve whatever comes.

There has been and continues to be joy and sorrow in my life. Is my joy based in actually getting something right or a delusion? Is my sorrow based in actual hurt inflicted on me by life or a misinterpretation of events that have happened? It comes down to perception. When I am confused, there is something I do not have right or something I am missing altogether.

Dialogue can increases awareness, so I talk it out. I speak it out loud. That conversation that goes on in my head between my self and my ego sounds much different when spoken aloud and the crap detector that my brain has built (poor as it is sometimes) has a better chance of doing its job. Dialogue with those around me is helpful as well. I am grateful to friends, family, and a very special teacher in Rev. Strickler. These people in my life care for and love me and are not afraid to call me out when my crap detector is malfunctioning.

Sometimes I am wrong. Remorse and mortification are good, they get my attention. However, if I get stuck at that point, wallowing in shame, pain and self-pity, my subconscious will continue replicating that experience for me, and that is a path that leads to nowhere good. So, rather than thinking I am a piece of dung for what I did or didn’t do, I should be thinking about and planning ways to avoid making the same error again. Change the thought, change the experience. A good plan today is better than a perfect plan tomorrow. I can make adjustments along the way, but the planning is not enough. I must take action. Once the blame, anger and resentment are released, the energy committed to those endeavors can then be applied to cleaning the slate. Tabula Rosa isn’t free. It requires work. Consequences of previous actions and inactions are still attached. I must make amends and do what I can to repair any damage. What can’t be undone I must live with, learn from it and move on.

I must let in the Light of Knowledge. I must ask questions. What was I thinking? Why was I thinking that? Where did I come up with that?! Who has been effected by my action? Who did I think I was fooling? Where did I think this was going to take me? How is that working out? What options do I have? When am I going to make a change?

If I always do what I have always done, I will always get what I have always gotten. If I am constantly being mistreated, I am in some manner participating in the treatment. I am a work in progress. I am constantly changing and growing. I can let that proceed from what has been put into subconscious from my sometimes erroneous interpretations of the past or actively participate with new input from a new perspective, a dynamic, growing self-conscious awareness! All this begs the question, “Is what I am becoming, becoming?”

become: 1: to come into existence 2: to undergo change or development becoming: suitable, fitting; especially: attractive

Think about it. I should get to work.

 – Glen Ford

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Spiritual Climate Newsletter NOVEMBER 2006 Part 5: AMUSE or BEMUSED by GoldFern



AMUSED OR BEMUSED – searching for another choice!


Science, the information age, TV, radio, instantaneous world wide communication, computers and the internet have made us ignorant by the accumulation and dissemination of tremendous quantities of information. It’s gotten so immense we have had to redefine the term Renaissance Man. Look what Webster has to say:

Renaissance man,

1. a cultured man of the Renaissance who was knowledgeable, educated, or proficient in a wide range of fields.

2. a present-day man who has acquired profound knowledge or proficiency in more than one field.

There you have it. The amount of information out there that it is possible to know has become so vast that you can qualify as a “Renaissance Man” with expertise in as little as two fields of endeavor. What chance does a merely smart guy have of keeping up? What chance does Joe Average have? What chance do the socially, economically, or educationally challenged have?

We are bombarded daily on television, radio, and the press, by a plethora of Chicken Littles telling us the sky is falling and who is to blame for it. The war in Iraq, the aftermath of Katrina, the Enron rip off, the decline of “family values” in America, a seemingly endless litany of problems we feel helpless to do anything about, leaving us dazed and confused.

This is then punctuated by hours and hours of mindless entertainment, drivel designed to make us feel better and keep us watching, because permeating it all are the advertisers who are trying to separate us from our hard earned cash by selling us their own version of “The Big Bright Green Pleasure Machine” “Do people have a tendency to dump on you? Well there’s no need to complain. We’ll eliminate your pain. We can neutralize your brain. You’ll feel just fine now. Are you worried and distressed? Can’t seem to get no rest? Put our product to the test, you’ll feel just fine now. Buy a Big Bright Green Pleasure Machine. You better hurry up and order one. Our limited supply is very nearly gone.[1] La La La you get the picture.

Is it any wonder that for many people the choice is between bemusement and amusement? We need to explore other options. Henry David Thoreau chose to withdraw and live simply “On Walden Pond”. Thoreau is dead. The America he lived in is long gone. It was a much simpler time. We can no longer afford to simply withdraw.

Communication and transportation advances have made the world a smaller place.  The increasing population puts us in ever closer proximity to each other. Today it is nearly impossible to find a Walden Pond to retreat to. And if we could find such a place I submit it is increasingly dangerous to do so. We are rapidly filling up this planet. People from vastly different cultures are in competition for ever shrinking resources. I don’t know how well traveled Thoreau was, but I doubt he had many dealings with any Muslims (terrorist or otherwise). In his day the military situation was characterized by, “Don’t shoot until you see the whites of their eyes”. Today we can deliver multi-megaton nuclear weapons with great precision thousands of miles away. We can no longer afford to withdraw, tend to our own immediate needs, and let the (worldly) chips fall where they may. If we do, sooner or later some nut case fanatic is going to get his hands on this technology and make 9/11/2001 seem like a bad hair day.

Dr. Strickler,

We’re in trouble. The sky is falling. I get that. But I don’t want to be just another “Chicken Little”. How can I help to prop it up? In a recent class we talked about the relationship between Agape, Paradox, Dialog and Knowledge. Perhaps you could write about this subject in these pages at some point. It seemed to me that understanding this dynamic process is the key to spiritual growth and responding in an appropriate manner to events of the world we live in. It sounds like a lot of effort but I sense a message of HOPE in there somewhere. I don’t pretend to have a firm enough grasp on the subject to expound on it here. Except to say, it seemed to me that dialogue seemed a key part of the process, expressing ideas, sharing experiences, asking questions, checking sources and the like. I think dialog is the key because it’s the only verb, a word of action.

“Language is the source of misunderstandings.” – Antoine de Saint-Exupery


“Genius’s erudition is a guarantee son. Nix speech and stay mute.” – GOLDFERN


P.S. And funny, it is the cure too! “Meaning” issues need an extra user dialog. G.

Yep, you guessed it. My anagrams are leaking out again. They are a hobby, they are a diversion, but they are also an inspiration for me. In looking for words to make the anagram self referential I need to examine closely the definition of the words involved, look at synonyms and antonyms, and consider the intent of the original writing. These exercises help develop skills that I hope may prove useful to critical thinking on more important matters.

The first line is a quote from “The Little Prince” by Antoine de Saint-Exupery. I agree that this is certainly the case. The first anagram I did back in December of 2003. It expressed my agreement and makes a suggestion on how to proceed. I was so proud of it. I even worked in a by line. Indeed I have spent much of my life staying mute, avoiding conflict, avoiding misunderstandings, but also unfortunately avoiding understanding as well. I met Dr. Strickler in 1993. At first I was a part-time pseudo-student from afar. Even now when I consider myself a full time student, my job has me on the road 70-80% of the time, and I am constantly playing catch up either through recordings or brief reviews Dr. Strickler gives to clarify a point during the classes I am able to attend. But through it all he has been slowly and relentlessly and patiently extracting me from my shell. The journey has been long and the end is not in sight. Indeed, I am beginning to get that it’s not so much about the end as it is about the journey. It has been a lot of work. It has been at times a painful process, but ultimately a liberating, empowering, and joyous trip.

The second anagram is from this month. In a recent class we were talking about sources of information, how language is used in advertising, in politics, and in religious dogma.

We talked about the importance of questioning the sources, discovering the motives and underlying agenda of different sources of information. We talked about defining terms to be sure we’re talking about the same thing and limiting confusion. This quote from Saint-Exupery jumped to mind again. Later I returned to this anagram to explore it some more. This second anagram takes the form of a Post Script to the original and I signed it simply with a G. It still refers back to the original; it is true but a bit contradictory to the original. Shall I call it an antigram? How is it possible that language is both the source and the cure for misunderstandings? It exposes another layer of meaning. It just goes to demonstrate that a little bit of information can be a dangerous thing. Keep asking questions. Keep peeling back the layers. The truth is out there.

The more I study the less I know, and the less likely I have been to write (thus exposing my formidable ignorance). More correctly, the more I study the more I am aware of how much I don’t know. Either way, these questions come up.

What do I have to say? I am no teacher. I do not have definitive answers. I do have experiences and ideas I can share. If anyone can benefit from it, so be it, but this writing is more about exploring and developing my own spiritual growth.

What do I have to say? I suppose there is nothing that I must say. I have been fairly practiced at silence. However, this newsletter has provided me an opportunity to develop and express my ideas about the world and my life. You have put three of my articles out there for the world to see, (Do Something, Participate on Purpose, and Mercy Won Me That Future Chance). A while back I thanked you for the opportunities and assistance on the occasion of Teacher’s Appreciation Week (Festschrift for David). Recently I have reviewed these writings. Part of the value for me of putting these things down in writing and showing them around is that I now have a sense of responsibility, obligation, to practice what I preached. Well, it seems that Jack (that’s me) has allowed himself to be put back in the Box again for some time. I was astounded to see that it has been over a year since I last participated on purpose in this forum. No excuses, but my apologies to Dr. Strickler, my fellow students, and the readers of Spiritual Climate for the length of this absence. This is my attempt to continue the dialog, to participate on purpose.

The problem as I see it is not so much that we have multimedia, but rather that we have so much of it and the purpose seems to have changed. Since the dawning of Humanity we have always had the theater. Stories of the hunt told around the campfire at night. Folklore designed to educate, preserve cultural traditions or historical information and yes to entertain. We have had playwrights such as Shakespeare, whose work was entertaining, and often cloaked social or political commentary.

The printing press brought us books. Books brought to us access to novelists poets philosophers, political social essayists, newspapers, The Bible, textbooks on math, science, history, you name it. Movies brought visual action and sound into the game, theater in a can. First radio and later television invaded our homes, theater in a box.

I grew up with television as most of us have. In the fifties and sixties in Cleveland, Ohio we had three stations. There were broadcasts from maybe 7am and the stations would sign off shortly after the news at 10 or 11pm. Today we have 100 plus channels, most of which run 24 hours a day. When is the last time you saw a test pattern on TV? This is the first part of the problem. Before theater came into a box in our homes, how many theaters were in your town and how many hours a month were there actually performances going on? Now with over a hundred channels running 24/7 the demand for programming to fill all that time is so great that the standard of quality has been lowered and we see a lot of trash out there. Haven’t you had the experience of flipping though the channels looking for something worth watching?

The technology and logistics of bringing the theater in a box into our homes has a monetary cost far greater than most of us would be willing or able to pay. Enter the second part of the problem, advertisers. The purpose of this little theater in a box is no longer just about entertainment or education, etc. It is about selling you something, anything, the big bright green pleasure machine. Ever wonder why it takes three hours to broadcast a one hour football game? Not into sports? Take a stopwatch to your favorite “hour long show” and see how long the show part is actually on. The Geico gecko says it pretty clearly. He is there so we think we are watching entertaining TV but it’s really a commercial. We laugh, he’s cute, but the joke is on us because it’s true.

So how is this for another choice? Shut the box off (at least sometimes) and think.

Try making this choice. Shall I be reactive or proactive? Let’s visit Webster again.

re·ac·tive, adj.

1. tending to react.

2. pertaining to or characterized by reaction.

3. Elect. pertaining to or characterized by reactance.

pro·ac·tive, adj.

serving to prepare for, intervene in, or control an expected occurrence or situation, esp. a negative or difficult one; anticipatory: proactive measures against crime.

Being reactive is about stimulus and response. Something happens and I respond, stimulus response. I get hungry and I eat something, stimulus response. Reflexes are reactionary. If you stick me with a pin, I jerk away, stimulus response. No thinking required. These are good things. They are a part of life.

Being proactive is about anticipation, preparation and intervention. What I choose to eat when I get hungry will have consequences. From experience I can anticipate those consequences, choose to prepare healthy meals and intervene in the progress of my body. The next time you approach me I’ll be watching for the pin. Anticipation, preparation, and intervention do require thinking. These are good things. They are a part of intelligent life.

Now the question becomes, “How do I get there?” Here’s a tool to start with:

Back in the mid-80’s I took a one year excursion into middle management with the medical company I work for. I was not well suited for it. Although I was getting the job done, it was far too stressful and I was not happy. When I found myself pacing around in the garage at night talking to myself, I decided it was time to take a step back into the clinical setting. There were no repercussions, no regrets. I learned a lot about the business, which allowed me to be a more valued employee to the manager who replaced me. During that year the company had several internal management training classes. It was in one of these classes that I ran across a list of seven rules that have stuck with me. They have proven useful not only at work, but for problem solving in literally all aspects of my life. They are pretty basic, nothing too earth shaking. The key is to remember to use them and reuse them over and over again.



ACQUIRE INFORMATION – Ask questions. Look at both sides of a situation, positive and negative. Due diligence is required. Get the best information you can in a reasonable amount of time. But don’t get stuck in the acquisition mode. Conrad Brean said “A good plan today is better than a perfect plan tomorrow.” You can always make adjustments. The sooner you get started the sooner you’ll reach the goal. Before I lose you to the thought, (Who the heck is Conrad Brean?), I better mention he was the ultimate spin doctor played by Robert DeNiro in the movie “Wag the Dog”.


MAKE A DECISION Set a goal. Change occurs, nothing is static. Nobody is in a position to make all the decisions but within your sphere of influence, who decides if you do not participate? Are their goals the same as yours? And if no-one makes decisions entropy wins and chaos ensues.


TAKE ACTION – The best laid plans of mice and men often go astray, but how sad if the plan never even gets out of the starting blocks. “It’s the job that’s never started as takes longest to finish.” Hamwise “Gaffer” Gamgee (From “The Lord of the Rings” trilogy of J.R.R. Tolkien). Just Do It – Nike.


ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY – This is not about taking the blame. What this rule encompasses is responding with ability. We have the ability to think, to plan, to be proactive. We have the ability to learn from our experience and make adjustments. Is the goal appropriate? How can I change my behavior to alter the outcome going forward?


NO ASSUMING – I think most of us have heard that when we assume, sooner or late it makes an ASS out of U and ME. Don’t assume that because you have had a discussion and agreed upon a course of action, that the action is going to be accomplished. People forget. People get distracted. Set a time up during the discussion for completion, or in larger projects for progress reports, and follow up to be sure things are on course. This rule applies even if the original discussion involved me myself and I.


NO SECOND GUESSING – If someone has done something hurtful, perplexing, or counterproductive, don’t guess at their motivation or reasoning. This is a form of assuming and a waste of time. Of all the possibilities, it’s unlikely to hit upon the right answer with a guess. Talk to them about it. They may not even be aware their action was a problem for you.


NO FAULT FINDING – When things don’t go as planed, what you want to find is rule #1 and start the process over again with the new information gained from experience. Finding fault and blaming people immediately puts them on the defensive. Whether it’s you or others involved, fault finding is a distraction from solution finding. This rule goes hand in hand with rule 4. You want to identify the behavior that didn’t work and make modifications, while avoiding personal attacks. When others are involved and you’re identifying actions that didn’t work, use “We did this” rather than “You did this”. It focuses attention on the behavior rather than the person, acknowledges your stake in the process, and is less likely to invoke a defensive response. It’s subtle distinction and takes practice, but will allow you to progress to solution finding more directly.

In summation, whether your goal is global, national, local, or personal, I hope you find this list useful. I encourage you to take action, to participate on purpose.

One more anagram before I go.


Do the work, reap the reward. You can’t win if you don’t play.

The Best of the Holidays to You and Yours,


[1] Excerpts from the album “Parsley, Sage, Rosemary, and Thyme”, by Simon and Garfunkel, Track 5, “The Big Bright Green Pleasure Machine”.


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